[Based_n_Cali]

Did you not even read the post? He's genuinely asking for career advice on how to get to the level in which he can afford a lifestyle that allows him to have a vehicle like this. He's not "hating" on what anyone buys. This is an unfamiliar concept to him and he wants to surround himself with the ideas and thinking that can put him in a position to win.

The advice he gets in this thread could have him owning one of these within 10 years.

Exactly. The reactions to this very positive thread are as cringe as you could imagine. The lad should be commended for posting this.

 

[michaeltw]

I find these threads on several forums. Usually the original poster is a jealous loner.

It's really not the business of anyone else how they afforded a car or to respond to those who are surprised someone would spend x on a car.

Nobody should be concerned how or why someone buys what they buy - this is a place for enthusiasts and answers to questions - not a forum for personal life choice defenses.

I don't know why anyone is feeding this troll.

Yeah same thing happens here every few years. If you just leave it alone it will fade and if it takes a turn we'll delete it.

 

[92nsxdefender]

Yeah same thing happens here every few years. If you just leave it alone it will fade and if it takes a turn we'll delete it.

But I think this is a great question. People get to learn from those in different industries and career paths and businesses they didn't realize were possible for them. This is a fantastic environment where young people can get bits of wisdom and insight, normalizing where a RR is a regular part of life. Or maybe I'm too optimistic and wishing the best for this guy.

 

[BradleyScott]

Did you not even read the post? He's genuinely asking for career advice on how to get to the level in which he can afford a lifestyle that allows him to have a vehicle like this. He's not "hating" on what anyone buys. This is an unfamiliar concept to him and he wants to surround himself with the ideas and thinking that can put him in a position to win.

The advice he gets in this thread could have him owning one of these within 10 years.

I'm not really sure that's what we meant. I reread it - We will have to agree to disagree on the concept.

I've been around forums for 20+ years and have seen many examples of posts like this.

I have no animosity towards the creator of the thread but I think it'sa bit personal to ask people to address how they made it in life to afford a vehicle like this.

Just my thought.

 

[BradleyScott]

FWIW I didn't write the poster was "hating" on anyone.

I just think its too personal of a question to ask folks he doesn't know (and we all do not know each other).

Coconut said it best though - to be kind to one another and not be the loudest voice in the room. Thought that was pretty fantastic advice.

I still wouldn't ask Coconut how he affords his cars. It simply isn't my business or anyone else's. I'm surprised this sentiment isn't shared by more folks here.

However we afford it - we afford it.

 

[92nsxdefender]

I'm not really sure that's what we meant. I reread it - We will have to agree to disagree on the concept.

I've been around forums for 20+ years and have seen many examples of posts like this.

I have no animosity towards the creator of the thread but I think it'sa bit personal to ask people to address how they made it in life to afford a vehicle like this.

Just my thought.

I’ve been on forums for 20+ years too. But I also properly read the questions proposed. And when someone asks for advice, it’s ok to share advice. Doesn’t mean you need to share what you particularly did.

The question he asked that was more important was “and what advice would you give to a lad in his 20’s who wants to be in the position to afford one?”

So I don’t see the issue with giving advice on how to help him on his career path.

 

[92nsxdefender]

For OP, there’s actually some quality advice here. And these vehicles cost way more than a RR.

 

[901Rover]

Being nice is probably the best advice I have ever gotten. You will have a few incredible opportunities in your life. If you treat everyone the same (and well) it will go a long way. You never know who you are dealing with.

Aside from that, work hard and do your best to be consistent. Be empathetic to coworkers. Assume the burden of work when others are out sick.At Lexus The best cars are hand built by master craftsmen and women who are hand picked based on their skills. They are not paid better. It’s a pride thing. There is a Japanese word for the theory. But again, you are doing something right building these beautiful and useful machines.

 

[DieselRover]

I wholeheartedly agree with the advice to be nice to people. Forums can be a place to find nice people, but more often than not, there are not so nice people on the forums.

 

[901Rover]

I spend 18 hours a day on the phone for work. I would suggest not doing something that requires that.

 

[901Rover]

Also- A guy I went to college with has like 5 kids and is doing just great. IT. I cant even imagine what his grocery bill is.

 

[RRForumUser1234]

First off, thanks for your hard work on the new model. It might not always seem it, but you are in a very enviable position: young, in your 20s, you have your entire career ahead of you.

12, 13 years ago I was the same as you, I just wanted everything right then and being financially secure seemed so far away. Now I'm 34, married, and have a pretty comfortable life in California. We own our home, we travel frequently and travel well, are thinking about a second condo in a city, and we get to drive the cars of our choice - currently a 2019 full-size L405 and a brand new Porsche Taycan, with an L460 coming to replace the L405. My spouse works in finance for a big firm, and I work in marketing for a film and television studio. We did this largely without parental support.

Even though we are comfortable, it's still a different type of struggle, more money, more bills, more taxes, more expectations to maintain a certain lifestyle. We call it golden handcuffs.

So, the first piece of advice I would give to anyone at any age in any industry: Pivot.
Don't get too comfortable with the status quo, instead get comfortable with the fact that technology, the economy and the world is constantly evolving, so always be ready to evolve your own skillset and mindset.

Secondly, be nice to absolutely every single person you ever encounter, no matter what a bellend they are (still have the Brit in me). It's amazing how small the world can be in your career.

Finally, thinking about your long term career, think about what you really really enjoy in life - whatever interests or hobbies that is - and then think about a way to monetize it. If you can find that secret sauce, you'll be a wealthy, but more important happy, fulfilled person.

This is very good advice - honest and heartfelt.

A few brief thoughts from my experience:

1. Find your passion so that work never feels like “work”.

2. Find your co-founder(s) (“partners”) who can help you achieve your vision and treat them well along the way. Show appreciation.

3. When you have achieved success, be generous and kind toward others, not just economically, but also give them mentorship through sincere feedback and second chances.