Haha LOL :joy: Love the humour Soulsea. I'm single, so no divorce papers for me, but maybe friendships might be on the line if one approaches the cup holder without proper authorisation haha!
But to the OP, I believe that a clear bra on the trim is the best option, like stated above, just like clear bra on the pillars, to avoid them being scratched or marred.
The piano black trim looks good with two tone interior colour combinations, such as the Ebony/Ivory colour combination for my build. I don't want too many colours in the interior, so I know going with the Piano Black will need TLC the duration of the vehicle, but nonetheless, like Ms. MDX said, have to enjoy what you paid for!
I take great care of my belongings, especially electronics and vehicles, even to a point of OCD sometimes, but what you want has to look good, and at the same time, enjoyable.
Hope you enjoy your beast with everything you want on it!