The most obvious advice is not to knowingly drive it until the red light comes on. You may have already caused damage with getting it so hot it was belching coolant out the overflow. As the radiator is crumbling at your finger tips it is most likely at least partially clogged. Take the time to do a proper flush to clean out passages pipes and thermostat as well as your heater core.Get a new radiator ordered and do not drive it until you get this issue rectified.