HELP!!! I've got a 97 4.6 and it started to pause before engaging into reverse and drive occasionally a couple of weeks ago. Now, it does nothing no matter what I shift into, have a transfer neutral alert on my panel and when I put it back into park, it makes a whine/grind sound. I do have an oil drip which has coated an actuator and maybe fouled it up. Not sure where start. Any suggestions or wisdom to offer out there? Thanks.