Answering questions 1-3, I think it could be a combination of things. If the ride is lumpy, I guess you are saying it is hard and/or vague steering? The 19" rims are cool, but the problem is that the walls are too low to absorb any rough road. One or two on the site have reverted back to the 16" from the 18" rims just because of this so I'd say 18" is about as far as you'd want to go. The 19" tyres are likely to be road bias tyres and they can pull you left and right over the road surface even with a tight steering system. If there is play in the steering then it could be a drop arm ball joint or once of the other ball joints in the steering system.
The airsprings should be fine and won't really affect the ride. However, if they are starting to perish, then you may as well get them changed. They are cheap enough provided you go OEM Dunlop and not the dealership parts department. Once they start to leak, then it puts pressure on the rest of the EAS system and you will find the compressor will wear out soon after and they are not a cheap item.
If you are getting wheel wobble, then it is likely you need to re-balance again and check the integrity of the brake discs and rims for any damage. Also worth getting the alignment set to neutral at the same time. Wobble starts from a rotating unit (i.e. the wheels most likely) and the wobble gets worse once something else such as bad bushings or non functioning steering damper get involved.
The airsprings should be fine and won't really affect the ride. However, if they are starting to perish, then you may as well get them changed. They are cheap enough provided you go OEM Dunlop and not the dealership parts department. Once they start to leak, then it puts pressure on the rest of the EAS system and you will find the compressor will wear out soon after and they are not a cheap item.
If you are getting wheel wobble, then it is likely you need to re-balance again and check the integrity of the brake discs and rims for any damage. Also worth getting the alignment set to neutral at the same time. Wobble starts from a rotating unit (i.e. the wheels most likely) and the wobble gets worse once something else such as bad bushings or non functioning steering damper get involved.